Ah, the New Year approaches.there is barely a month left to go before the fireworks and chiming bells begin, and people everywhere are contemplating the resolutions that they want to make for the coming year. Resolutions are made around the world by those who are in need of change, or absolution, of a fresh start. We make them for each other, for ourselves and for the sake of Auld Lang Syne, and yet it’s the hardest choice to make. To resolve is to promise, and while keeping promises to other people is easy, it’s hardest to keep the promises which we make for ourselves.
And yet, the ball will drop, the bells will ring and the New Year will ring in promptly. So, what about you? What do you want for the new era of the Twenties? Below, you’ll find a list of resolutions that people make and that you can stick to for yourself for once. And don’t do it for Auld Lang Syne – do it for you. Here are 5 perfect new years resolutions.
Resolve to Feel
The year is new and all the heartache you had before? Leave it all behind. No one is saying you should start preparing for Muslim marriage quite yet, but that doesn’t mean that you can’t let love in this year. Resolve to fall in love – even if the only person that you fall for is you. Think about how you can love yourself again, which will then lead you to find someone to love you who is worthy of you.
Resolve To See
There is a whole world out there to see and you need to make a plan to see it. It doesn’t matter if you skip as far as the town over from where you live, you need to make a plan to see some more things. You only get one chance in this life we lead, and you should take every opportunity that comes your way.
Resolve To Refuse
Babe, it’s time to say NO. Say no to people who take away your joy. Say no to people who ask too much of you. Stop being a yes person and make a stand for yourself. You are in a New Year – new you, right?
Resolve To Agree
On the flip side, say yes to things that you want and stop feeling guilty for it. You have nothing to feel guilty about and you should do things that you love – it’s a good time to start agreeing to a little self-care and fun for yourself for a change. Don’t say no to things that you want to do. You’ll come out of the year a much happier person for it.
Resolve To Quit
Quit smoking. Quit the excessive drinking or drugs. Quit self-sabotage. Quit being sad and lonely and angry. Life can suck – we all know that – but you need to stop accepting less than you deserve and demand more. Quit being walked on. It’s a year for quitters – so be one in the best possible sense of the word.